Still, though, he felt just a little bit empty, a little bit restless, and so he logged onto Tantan, a Chinese dating app similar to Tinder, that he has been using for the past year. Often referred to as the 'Chinese Tinder', Tantan was recently acquired by Momo, one of the biggest social networking apps in China. Tantan is a must if you're living in or visiting a mega city like Shanghai or Beijing. It has an English version, so it's the perfect Chinese dating app to try if you don't speak Mandarin. 2 hours ago Tinder, the popular dating app, is partnering with streaming giant Netflix as the official casting partner for its first ever Indian dating reality show, ‘IRL: In Real Love'.
Tinder revolutionized the dating world when it was launched five years ago. The dating app's unique design inspired a surge of location-based 'swipe' apps which collectively morphed online dating from an odd, secretive habit into an acceptable way to meet partners. The algorithm-based sites of the early 2000s now look obsolete, and for millions, dating has been boiled down to one essential question: 'Is this person hot?'
But, in drastically streamlining the attraction process, and entirely by accident, Tinder became the skeleton key to unlocking data on racism in America. The app's data proves that black women and Asian men are the demographics on which the highest number of people swipe 'left,' thereby rejecting them. By distilling dates down to a profile picture and a swipe, Tinder encourages users to act on their knee-jerk reactions, and that lightning fast process lights up corners of our minds we haven't fully grappled with as a society. Black women and Asian men make up two demographics that have been long stigmatized as not-ideal sexual and romantic partners.
It's not that Tinder made anyone racist. It's that the app compiles data on the quick preferences, and prejudices, of millions around the world, exposing an uncomfortable and racist reality.
Established in 2004, a whole six years prior to Tinder, the dating site OKCupid ensured its longevity when it sought help from Tinder in 2013 to implement the swipe into its own platform. It was a year later when OKCupid founder Christian Rudder published Datacylsm, a book which collects illustrated data visualizations with stats from OKC user profiles. The book offers incredible insight into topics like our habits, our political beliefs, our speech patterns — and the assumptions many people still make about entire populations. Generally, most users on OKC — and by extension, other sites — 'swipe left' on black women and Asian men the most. That data matches Tinder's data exactly.
In a 2014 TIME article reporting on Datacylsm's findings, Jack Linshi explained OKC's 1 to 5 scale and how different racial groups of women rated Asian men. It wasn't high.
'While Asian women are more likely to give Asian men higher ratings, women of other races—black, Latina, white—give Asian men a rating between 1 and 2 stars less than what they usually rate men,' wrote Linshi. 'Black and Latin men faced ‘similar discrimination,' while white men had ratings 'most high among women of all races.'
Tinder Dating App Apk
Meanwhile, black women were considered the 'least desirable' among all races of men. 'Asian, Latin and white men tend to give black women 1 to 1.5 stars less, while black men's ratings of black women are more consistent with their ratings of all races of women,' he wrote. The most highly-rated groups of women by men were those of Asian and Latin descent, with white women not far behind.
While people are free to have their individual preferences, it is extremely telling that two unique demographics are ostracized on several different dating platforms. Basic knowledge of human history, particularly American history, reveal where and how the alienation of black women and Asian men began. (It's important to note that these subjects are dense enough to fill whole libraries, so further reading elsewhere is encouraged.)
European colonists who orchestrated the African slave trade created caricatures, such as the Jezebel and the Sapphire, in order to further dehumanize and stereotype black women. Because of their strength and enslavement, black slaves were paradoxically fetishized by white masters who were both abhorred and allured by black women and their sexuality. It should come as no surprise then that white slave owners took in black women as sexual slaves, raping black women as they married white women.
The modern incarnation for stereotyped black women is the plainly-named 'angry black woman.' Stereotyped as hot-tempered, independent narcissists in our culture, and in our popular media, this image has been damaging to the cultural collective; in 2016, Anni Ferguson wrote in the Guardian how black females are statistically diagnosed with mental illnesses more than twice as often when compared to white women. 'The fact that black women face struggles with perception every day can often mean that the constant fight seems normal,' writes Ferguson. 'It became clear that these women were resigned to their fate. As a black woman you are scary, inadequate, ugly or hyper-sexualized – and you just have to accept it.'
Asian men have had a vastly different cultural experience in the Americas. Although not subject to the indignities of enslavement, Asian immigrants during 19th-century westward expansion formed the basis for today's prejudices against a cheaper-to-hire foreign working class. America's first Asians endured discrimination from whites who felt their jobs were stolen, so their effeminate clothes, alien languages, and smaller physical features became targets. Early American media birthed the Yellow Peril, a treacherous imp who sought white women and white lands.
Throughout the 20th century, after numerous discriminatory laws (such as Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882, the Immigration Act of 1917, the Geary Act, all anti-miscegenation, which included blacks and Native Americans) were repealed, America entered war with the Japanese, then later Communist-backed North Korea and North Vietnam, which created new stereotypes energized by the ghosts of old. When it was all over, Asian men found a new box to fill in: the model minority, over-worked math nerds who aren't sexy enough to party with. And the model minority stereotype, as well, has left its share of psychological damage on Asian-American young people.
It's important to note that Dataclysm focused on data uncovered by OKCupid, but it's not unreasonable to think human beings seeking sexual and romantic partners won't behave differently just because of the platform they're using. A number of first-person accounts, including Michelle Ofiwe in Complex in 2016, Charlie Brinkhurst-Cuff in Vice in 2015, Serena Smith in Babe earlier this year, and Mahesh Sharma in Sydney Morning Herald in 2016, help illustrate that our sexual prejudices extend to Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and beyond.
It was also in 2016 when comedians Jessica Williams and Ronny Chieng explored sexual racism in a segment for The Daily Show, which (humorously) found the same data across all dating apps. As Rudder himself put it during the segment: 'Everybody, collectively, is rating Asian men and black women poorly.'
Tinder found a reason to reckon with its role in society earlier this summer. In a login video exclusive to Hong Kong users, Tinder showed a user swipe left only once on the only Asian male in the commercial. The site was slammed online. Though the company said in its apology that 'it was not our intention' and that 'we see in retrospect how the content could be seen as insensitive,' it provided proof that the struggles of dating as a member of a marginalized group are invisible to everyone else.
Everyone has their individual preferences. Some women like people with blue eyes, some guys like girls with short hair. Free pinay dating app. But some prefer people from a specific race. While the fetishizing and discrimination of entire races in the realm of dating is wrong, it's also something an overwhelming amount of people are guilty of. Until we openly admit and own up to it, the data will speak for itself.
A few days ago my Facebook was filled with the excitement of Valentine's day celebrations. With lovers sharing a million lovey dovey over the top romantic posts, myself included. But also with those who are single sharing anti-Valentine days' posts. Or other love related posts. As the day set out for lovers, it can sometimes remind those of us who are not dating that we are alone.
Did you know that after every Valentines day the rate of new users for dating apps jumps up?
It makes sense as everyone wants to find their one true love. That's why in this blog edition, we will introduce the top Chinese dating apps.
The quick development of the internet, electronic software and in the end social media, has drastically changed our lives. Whether for the good or bad that remains to be seen! The main thing it has done is connect people even more. In this respect, dating apps have changed the way we connect with a lover and the way we date. Some would argue that it's made dating more efficient. Other's that it's made it less romantic. I sometimes find myself wondering what Disney princess movies would look like if they had access to dating apps.
Just imagine in a land far far away…
Cinderella's prince finds her by matching her shoes from a tinder picture, tick, no need to search through the whole kingdom. He just needs to wait for her to match with him too!
Ariel never needs to change to a human, with a sneaky well cropped picture on OkCupid how could Eric ever know she was a mermaid except during their first date!
Aladdin joining a ‘Rich Man' based app as Jasmines dad uses it to find her suitors, no need for the Genie.
Not quite the same ring to it right? But then again we can't hold ourselves to the unrealistic standards of princesses! We aren't just sitting in a castle with our long flowing hair waiting for a prince.
The good thing about dating apps is we don't need to wait for that one specific special moment. We can create those moments ourselves. With online dating apps we're no longer limited to finding someone special by accident with the help of the universe. We can do this whilst waiting in line for morning coffee, whilst at work (don't tell your boss), etc. The possibilities are endless. Whereas before you had to stick to your friends' circle and connections to introduce a suitor. With dating apps, the possibilities are amplified as you can match with a stranger. So even if you don't end up dating you have made a new friend and expanded your social circle.
In an age where we are always running around dating apps let us use our time more effectively.
If you are planning on coming to China, your usual dating apps will not be so popular. To increase the number of date possibilities I suggest using Chinese dating apps. So why, as a language blog are we talking about dating apps!?
Well, these apps can also help you connect with others and make friends, you don't just have to use it for dating.
But if love is in your cards…
As my Chinese teacher always said, the best way to learn a language is to have a lover who speaks it. Although, from personal experience I think my Chinese got worse after I met my husband!
Learning new languages became a key to succeeding in a connected world. Here are my top favorite language translator apps.
Here are our office staffs favorite Chinese dating apps:
1-TanTan探探 (Tàntàn)
Top features: Easy to use, quick matches
If you download TanTan you will find it similar if you've used Tinder. TanTan is very popular with younger generations, especially college students. Just like Tinder, you create a basic profile and then it's up to you to find a match. You are presented with a person's photo and profile and like Tinder, swipe left/right to select/eliminate this person. A conversation can only start once you have both picked each other.
Unlike the other Chinese dating apps, TanTan can be used fully in English! This is extremely useful if your Chinese is not very good.
Since last year TanTan is now also owned by the next dating app we will mention Momo.
2-Momo陌陌 (Mòmò)
Top features: Personalized interest based matches, similar to a social media network
This is the number one app in China in terms of user number. Because of this if you could only pick one app to download this one would be it. To increase your chances of finding a suitable candidate it's better to use an app that has a large user base. This is because it means more matches per location. So this is the one I suggest downloading.
This app has some fun features that make it almost like a social platform rather than a simple dating app. For examplemulti-media instant messages, as well as games, and much more. This app specifically gives you personalized matches based on your location. The more information you add to your profile the better your chances of finding a good match.
3-Qing Chufan请吃饭 (Qǐng chīfàn)
Tinder Dating Sites
Top features: Simple, unique, cute, possibly the most romantic of the dating apps
If you are studying Chinese, you will know what qing chifan means! It means 'please, let's eat', and that's exactly what this app is used for!
The way this app works is very funny, to me it reminds me of the bachelor. It starts off by a guy proposing a dinner date, lets call him the bachelor. I say man because this actually started off with men proposing dinners but now women do that too. Once a dinner has been proposed, women sign up for it, then the bachelor picks with what woman he would like to have dinner with! Yahoo boy dating site.
Tinder Dating
For most people dating apps have become the go-to way to date! I think it will become the new norm to have met your partner online in the future. So have fun using these Chinese dating apps to find your one true love or a new friend, and improve your Chinese skills!
Still, though, he felt just a little bit empty, a little bit restless, and so he logged onto Tantan, a Chinese dating app similar to Tinder, that he has been using for the past year. Often referred to as the 'Chinese Tinder', Tantan was recently acquired by Momo, one of the biggest social networking apps in China. Tantan is a must if you're living in or visiting a mega city like Shanghai or Beijing. It has an English version, so it's the perfect Chinese dating app to try if you don't speak Mandarin. 2 hours ago Tinder, the popular dating app, is partnering with streaming giant Netflix as the official casting partner for its first ever Indian dating reality show, ‘IRL: In Real Love'.
Tinder revolutionized the dating world when it was launched five years ago. The dating app's unique design inspired a surge of location-based 'swipe' apps which collectively morphed online dating from an odd, secretive habit into an acceptable way to meet partners. The algorithm-based sites of the early 2000s now look obsolete, and for millions, dating has been boiled down to one essential question: 'Is this person hot?'
But, in drastically streamlining the attraction process, and entirely by accident, Tinder became the skeleton key to unlocking data on racism in America. The app's data proves that black women and Asian men are the demographics on which the highest number of people swipe 'left,' thereby rejecting them. By distilling dates down to a profile picture and a swipe, Tinder encourages users to act on their knee-jerk reactions, and that lightning fast process lights up corners of our minds we haven't fully grappled with as a society. Black women and Asian men make up two demographics that have been long stigmatized as not-ideal sexual and romantic partners.
It's not that Tinder made anyone racist. It's that the app compiles data on the quick preferences, and prejudices, of millions around the world, exposing an uncomfortable and racist reality.
Established in 2004, a whole six years prior to Tinder, the dating site OKCupid ensured its longevity when it sought help from Tinder in 2013 to implement the swipe into its own platform. It was a year later when OKCupid founder Christian Rudder published Datacylsm, a book which collects illustrated data visualizations with stats from OKC user profiles. The book offers incredible insight into topics like our habits, our political beliefs, our speech patterns — and the assumptions many people still make about entire populations. Generally, most users on OKC — and by extension, other sites — 'swipe left' on black women and Asian men the most. That data matches Tinder's data exactly.
In a 2014 TIME article reporting on Datacylsm's findings, Jack Linshi explained OKC's 1 to 5 scale and how different racial groups of women rated Asian men. It wasn't high.
'While Asian women are more likely to give Asian men higher ratings, women of other races—black, Latina, white—give Asian men a rating between 1 and 2 stars less than what they usually rate men,' wrote Linshi. 'Black and Latin men faced ‘similar discrimination,' while white men had ratings 'most high among women of all races.'
Tinder Dating App Apk
Meanwhile, black women were considered the 'least desirable' among all races of men. 'Asian, Latin and white men tend to give black women 1 to 1.5 stars less, while black men's ratings of black women are more consistent with their ratings of all races of women,' he wrote. The most highly-rated groups of women by men were those of Asian and Latin descent, with white women not far behind.
While people are free to have their individual preferences, it is extremely telling that two unique demographics are ostracized on several different dating platforms. Basic knowledge of human history, particularly American history, reveal where and how the alienation of black women and Asian men began. (It's important to note that these subjects are dense enough to fill whole libraries, so further reading elsewhere is encouraged.)
European colonists who orchestrated the African slave trade created caricatures, such as the Jezebel and the Sapphire, in order to further dehumanize and stereotype black women. Because of their strength and enslavement, black slaves were paradoxically fetishized by white masters who were both abhorred and allured by black women and their sexuality. It should come as no surprise then that white slave owners took in black women as sexual slaves, raping black women as they married white women.
The modern incarnation for stereotyped black women is the plainly-named 'angry black woman.' Stereotyped as hot-tempered, independent narcissists in our culture, and in our popular media, this image has been damaging to the cultural collective; in 2016, Anni Ferguson wrote in the Guardian how black females are statistically diagnosed with mental illnesses more than twice as often when compared to white women. 'The fact that black women face struggles with perception every day can often mean that the constant fight seems normal,' writes Ferguson. 'It became clear that these women were resigned to their fate. As a black woman you are scary, inadequate, ugly or hyper-sexualized – and you just have to accept it.'
Asian men have had a vastly different cultural experience in the Americas. Although not subject to the indignities of enslavement, Asian immigrants during 19th-century westward expansion formed the basis for today's prejudices against a cheaper-to-hire foreign working class. America's first Asians endured discrimination from whites who felt their jobs were stolen, so their effeminate clothes, alien languages, and smaller physical features became targets. Early American media birthed the Yellow Peril, a treacherous imp who sought white women and white lands.
Throughout the 20th century, after numerous discriminatory laws (such as Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882, the Immigration Act of 1917, the Geary Act, all anti-miscegenation, which included blacks and Native Americans) were repealed, America entered war with the Japanese, then later Communist-backed North Korea and North Vietnam, which created new stereotypes energized by the ghosts of old. When it was all over, Asian men found a new box to fill in: the model minority, over-worked math nerds who aren't sexy enough to party with. And the model minority stereotype, as well, has left its share of psychological damage on Asian-American young people.
It's important to note that Dataclysm focused on data uncovered by OKCupid, but it's not unreasonable to think human beings seeking sexual and romantic partners won't behave differently just because of the platform they're using. A number of first-person accounts, including Michelle Ofiwe in Complex in 2016, Charlie Brinkhurst-Cuff in Vice in 2015, Serena Smith in Babe earlier this year, and Mahesh Sharma in Sydney Morning Herald in 2016, help illustrate that our sexual prejudices extend to Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and beyond.
It was also in 2016 when comedians Jessica Williams and Ronny Chieng explored sexual racism in a segment for The Daily Show, which (humorously) found the same data across all dating apps. As Rudder himself put it during the segment: 'Everybody, collectively, is rating Asian men and black women poorly.'
Tinder found a reason to reckon with its role in society earlier this summer. In a login video exclusive to Hong Kong users, Tinder showed a user swipe left only once on the only Asian male in the commercial. The site was slammed online. Though the company said in its apology that 'it was not our intention' and that 'we see in retrospect how the content could be seen as insensitive,' it provided proof that the struggles of dating as a member of a marginalized group are invisible to everyone else.
Everyone has their individual preferences. Some women like people with blue eyes, some guys like girls with short hair. Free pinay dating app. But some prefer people from a specific race. While the fetishizing and discrimination of entire races in the realm of dating is wrong, it's also something an overwhelming amount of people are guilty of. Until we openly admit and own up to it, the data will speak for itself.
A few days ago my Facebook was filled with the excitement of Valentine's day celebrations. With lovers sharing a million lovey dovey over the top romantic posts, myself included. But also with those who are single sharing anti-Valentine days' posts. Or other love related posts. As the day set out for lovers, it can sometimes remind those of us who are not dating that we are alone.
Did you know that after every Valentines day the rate of new users for dating apps jumps up?
It makes sense as everyone wants to find their one true love. That's why in this blog edition, we will introduce the top Chinese dating apps.
The quick development of the internet, electronic software and in the end social media, has drastically changed our lives. Whether for the good or bad that remains to be seen! The main thing it has done is connect people even more. In this respect, dating apps have changed the way we connect with a lover and the way we date. Some would argue that it's made dating more efficient. Other's that it's made it less romantic. I sometimes find myself wondering what Disney princess movies would look like if they had access to dating apps.
Just imagine in a land far far away…
Cinderella's prince finds her by matching her shoes from a tinder picture, tick, no need to search through the whole kingdom. He just needs to wait for her to match with him too!
Ariel never needs to change to a human, with a sneaky well cropped picture on OkCupid how could Eric ever know she was a mermaid except during their first date!
Aladdin joining a ‘Rich Man' based app as Jasmines dad uses it to find her suitors, no need for the Genie.
Not quite the same ring to it right? But then again we can't hold ourselves to the unrealistic standards of princesses! We aren't just sitting in a castle with our long flowing hair waiting for a prince.
The good thing about dating apps is we don't need to wait for that one specific special moment. We can create those moments ourselves. With online dating apps we're no longer limited to finding someone special by accident with the help of the universe. We can do this whilst waiting in line for morning coffee, whilst at work (don't tell your boss), etc. The possibilities are endless. Whereas before you had to stick to your friends' circle and connections to introduce a suitor. With dating apps, the possibilities are amplified as you can match with a stranger. So even if you don't end up dating you have made a new friend and expanded your social circle.
In an age where we are always running around dating apps let us use our time more effectively.
If you are planning on coming to China, your usual dating apps will not be so popular. To increase the number of date possibilities I suggest using Chinese dating apps. So why, as a language blog are we talking about dating apps!?
Well, these apps can also help you connect with others and make friends, you don't just have to use it for dating.
But if love is in your cards…
As my Chinese teacher always said, the best way to learn a language is to have a lover who speaks it. Although, from personal experience I think my Chinese got worse after I met my husband!
Learning new languages became a key to succeeding in a connected world. Here are my top favorite language translator apps.
Here are our office staffs favorite Chinese dating apps:
1-TanTan探探 (Tàntàn)
Top features: Easy to use, quick matches
If you download TanTan you will find it similar if you've used Tinder. TanTan is very popular with younger generations, especially college students. Just like Tinder, you create a basic profile and then it's up to you to find a match. You are presented with a person's photo and profile and like Tinder, swipe left/right to select/eliminate this person. A conversation can only start once you have both picked each other.
Unlike the other Chinese dating apps, TanTan can be used fully in English! This is extremely useful if your Chinese is not very good.
Since last year TanTan is now also owned by the next dating app we will mention Momo.
2-Momo陌陌 (Mòmò)
Top features: Personalized interest based matches, similar to a social media network
This is the number one app in China in terms of user number. Because of this if you could only pick one app to download this one would be it. To increase your chances of finding a suitable candidate it's better to use an app that has a large user base. This is because it means more matches per location. So this is the one I suggest downloading.
This app has some fun features that make it almost like a social platform rather than a simple dating app. For examplemulti-media instant messages, as well as games, and much more. This app specifically gives you personalized matches based on your location. The more information you add to your profile the better your chances of finding a good match.
3-Qing Chufan请吃饭 (Qǐng chīfàn)
Tinder Dating Sites
Top features: Simple, unique, cute, possibly the most romantic of the dating apps
If you are studying Chinese, you will know what qing chifan means! It means 'please, let's eat', and that's exactly what this app is used for!
The way this app works is very funny, to me it reminds me of the bachelor. It starts off by a guy proposing a dinner date, lets call him the bachelor. I say man because this actually started off with men proposing dinners but now women do that too. Once a dinner has been proposed, women sign up for it, then the bachelor picks with what woman he would like to have dinner with! Yahoo boy dating site.
Tinder Dating
For most people dating apps have become the go-to way to date! I think it will become the new norm to have met your partner online in the future. So have fun using these Chinese dating apps to find your one true love or a new friend, and improve your Chinese skills!
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